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The Balance of Spirit and Nature.

 

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The Balance of "Spirit and Nature"
Seeing the Spiritual in the Sensual

We are the dance of Spirit and Nature. Unless we know this Tantra is elusive.
But, whether we understand it or not - Tantra is continually performing itself,
Tantra is, what is happening.

 

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"In truth everything in life is about that dance.

When the rain goes onto the parched earth, that's tantra in a sense, that's creation, that's merging.
When the wind blows through trees, that's merging.
Everything in life is always dancing with the polarities, with the interchangeable energies.
And so expanding your understanding of sex beyond the body can open up a world where you're truly living in a very ecstatic state.
And then you just become a dancer in that dance.
And it doesn't even matter how it turns out, it's the joy of dancing that allows your heart to celebrate every day."

.Let Peace and Peace and Peace Be Everywhere..

And this is the joy of sex, because you disappear for a moment. That moment is very small, but immense is its impact. For one moment you are no more the ego, you don't think in terms of 'I', for one moment you dissolve into the unity of the all, you become one with the whole, you pulsate with the whole. You are no more an individual, ...you are no more confined to your body. You don't know limitations, for a moment you are unlimited, infinite.

That is the meaning of sexual orgasm -- that your frozen energy melts, becomes one with this universe, with the trees and the stars, and the woman and the man, and the rocks -- for a single moment, of course. But in THAT moment you have a kind of consciousness that is religious, that is holy, that is one with all things.
osho

One tree merging into another tree, earth merging into the trees, trees merging into the sky, the sky merging into the beyond… you merging in me, I mergine in you… everything merging… distinctions lost, melting and merging like waves into other waves… a vast oneness vibrating, alive, without boundaries, without definitions, without distinctions… the sage merging into the sinner, the sinner merging into the sage… good becoming bad, bad becoming good… night turning into the day, the day turning into the night… life melting into death, death molding again into life -- then everything has become one.

 

TANTRA
The Balance of Spirit and Nature.

Tantra is the original ‘holistic’ way of life, yoking body, mind and spirit into living life as a whole. Polarities of good and evil, pure and impure, matter and spirit are done away with as unnecessary barriers to a direct experience of cosmic consciousness. With great finesse, tantra uses material reality for spiritual unfoldment.
According to Tantra, everything in the universe is perfect as it is; the limitations that exist are within the mind. It is said in the Tripurarahasya: "Though in reality there is no bondage, the individual is in bondage as long as there exists the feeling of limitation in him....

""To thine own self be true""

"Straight away, remove yourself from the field of spiritual progression , stay away from contemplation and skillful discourse, do not do research or meditate on the divinities, and stop concentrating and reciting textbooks! Tell me, what is the absolute nature of reality which allows no room for doubt? Listen carefully! Stop holding on to this or that, inhabit your true absolute nature, and peacefully enjoy the essence of what it is to be alive!" ~Abhinavagupta

Woman was humankind’s initial religion and the Mother Goddess the very first divinity. She embodies sensuality, eroticism, pleasure, liberation, love. She is Shakti, the primordial energy from where everything emerges.

"Shiva and Shakti".

In Tantra writings, a woman’s sexual and spiritual energies are often referred to as shakti. In Hindu traditions the goddess Shakti represents the female principle or energy. Although the female force, or shakti, exists in both women and men, women are seen as the “guardians” of the shakti energy. According to ancient Tantric writings, the power of the shakti is limitless. Once awakened, this spiritual, energetic, and sexual force can be channeled creatively.

"Shiva" and Shakti can thus be called polar opposites that are thought to be in a constant state of union, the one sustaining the other, and the other nurturing the one. They are visualized as diametric opposites that fit perfectly in one another— cosmic consciousness embedded within the creative impulse. Together, they hold up creation. As Adi Shankara says in Saundaryalahari, "Shiva is able to function when united with Shakti; otherwise he is inert."


by William Frank Diedrich

When we become lost in our lover,
what is happening is that our souls are merging.
This is an experience that is independent of the physical body.
It can be compared to two lights moving
closer and closer until they occupy the same space."

Sant Rajinder Singh Ji Maharaj,

This state of cosmic union is the source of the sexual imagery and practices associated with Tantra. Whether it is the Shiva lingam placed on the triangular yoni, the bindu within the triangle in yantras, Kali and other aspects of Devi in sexual union with a prone Shiva, or Tibetan Buddhist yab-yum depictions that show bodhisattvas in copulation with their consorts—they are all artistic interpretations of the mystical state of coupling of Shiva and Shakti.

In tantra Sexual intercourse between man and woman,The "Lingam" in the Yoni is seen as an actualization in the human realm of this profound creationary reality.

"The goal of human life, is for the individual self to seek union with
supreme undifferentiated consciousness, to merge in union with the Divine"

Nor can I say `I love you,' when I have ceased to be, and you have ceased to be: we are both caught up and transcended into a new oneness where everything is silent, because there is nothing to answer, all is perfect and at one. Speech travels between the separate parts. But in the perfect One there is perfect silence of bliss.
Women in Love by D.H. Lawrence: Chapter 27

 

Upon "Kundalini" awakening, "Shakti rises up the spine to meet Shiva", her male counterpart. Together their merged energies create an alchemical fusion of bliss. Thus in Tantra, the coupling of a man and woman serves to represent this greater, universal creative process, as the intercourse between a couple simulates the creation dance of "Shakti" and "Shiva".

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Clad. In her absolute, primordial nakedness she is free from all covering of "Illusion". She is Nature (Prakriti in Sanskrit), stripped of 'clothes'. It symbolizes that she is completely beyond name and form, completely beyond the illusory effects of "Maya" (false consciousness). Her nudity is said to represent totally illumined consciousness, unaffected by maya. Kali is the bright fire of truth, which cannot be hidden by the clothes of ignorance. Such truth simply burns them away.

In The Tantric Video Above "Kama Sutra"

Perhaps these scenes are allegorical--comparing experiencing God with sexuality's all-consuming attention. According to Brhadaranyaka Upanishad 4.3.21, “As a man closely embraced by a beloved woman knows nothing outside, nothing inside, even so this “person,” closely embraced by the knowing Self knows nothing outside, nothing inside. There his desires are fulfilled, he desires only the Self, desireless, all sorrows ended.” Perhaps these scenes illustrate tantric religious practice--which in the classical Indian (Hindu AND Buddhist) ideas .involves the idea of attaining ultimate unity through transcending all duality

 

The Balance of "Spirit and Nature"

"SPIRIT"

 

"Tantra" is a Sanskrit word of two parts. The prefix, tan, means “to expand, join or weave.” The latter part, tra, means “tool.” Therefore, the definition of the term Tantra has a two-fold meaning—“a tool to expand, liberate, and bring together.” What is known about Tantra is that the most common form is preserved through such writings as the Kama Sutra (probably written around the time of Christ) and the Ananga Ranga (a collection of erotic works from around 1100 A.D.) The purest form of Tantra was not passed down in writing, but only by way of initiations and personal instruction.

Some people believe that Tantra evolved from the practice of yoga, which, like Tantra, is about liberation and joining. In fact, many of the physically challenging sexual positions of Tantric lovemaking are actually yoga postures used for personal awakening.

When we say Tantra, some say " Yoga of sex"

This is incorrect traditionally. Tantra is often translated as “warp”, like the warp on a loom. This means that in this Universe, everything is actually "connected" as woven fabric etc. In this Universe there exists a web that connects all to all. An Arab phrase says: if you cut a blade of grass, the whole world shudders.

This concept is amazing, since it shows us that the ancient Tantrics knew and percived the " Universe "at a level that only today we begin to understand.

Although most "spiritual disciplines" insist on evolving into higher states of consciousness by controlling or "denying the senses"and so called lower states of consciousness , Tantra teaches that you cannot experience complete personal and spiritual liberation while restricting a part of your being

How can one experience Total unity whilst denying a part of that Totality ?

Growing out of the yogic tradition, Tantra appears in provinces that had not been strongly Vedicised: e.g. the Northwest, Bengal, and the South (Eliade, Ibid p.201) in the fourth century of the common era. Within the space of a few centuries it had attained pan-Indian inflence. A number of distinct and independent branches developed, so that one can speak of Mahayana Buddhist tantrism (Tibetan Vajrayana, Mahamudra."adamantine vehicle", and Japanese Shingon "Mantra teaching") Shaivite tantrism (in Kashmir, emphasising the monistic Vedantic perspective), Natha tantrism (a hybrid Shaivite yogic movement), Shakta tantra (in Bengal, emphasising the chakras, kundalini, and occult practices), cosmological tantrism (the Pancharatra movement), Jain tantrism, and even Vaishvana tantrism (among devotees of Vishnu and Krishna).

"Here ("within" this body) is the Ganges and Jumna...here are Prayaga and Benares - here the sun and the moon. Here are the sacred places, here the Pithas and Upa-pithas - I have not seen a place of pilgrimage and an abode of bliss like my body."
Saraha (Indian Tantric Buddhist adept)

TANTRA is indeed dangerous. It is a threat to all those belief systems and institutions that have "limited your potential", stolen your power and sought to "control" you through "guilt" and "fear". That’s why it’s been literally forced underground for thousands of years.

WHEN A MAN IS IN FEAR, even though he has been a life long atheist, he starts turning into a theist. Priests/Gurus came to know about it, and then they manipulated it down the ages. The whole past of humanity is fear ridden. And the greatest way to create fear is to make man feel guilty about natural things. He cannot drop them, and he cannot enjoy them because of the fear of hell, so he is in a double bind. That double bind is the base of man's exploitation. You cannot just drop your sexuality because some stupid priest/Guru is saying that it is wrong. It has nothing to do with your idea of right and wrong; it is something natural, something in your very being. You were concieved out of it, each of your cells is a sexual cell. Just by talking, you cannot drop it. Yes, you can start repressing it, and by repressing you can go on accumulating it in the unconscious, and that becomes a wound. And the more you repress, the more obsessed you become with it. And the more obsessed you become, the more guilty you feel. It is a vicious circle. Now you are caught in the trap of the priests/Gurus, and of those seeking to control YOU .

Margaret Miles observes that "the regulation of sexuality was a major power issue in the fourth-century Christian churches. Regulation of sexual practices was a way to inject the authority of church laws and leaders into the intimate and daily relationships of Christians. Analyzing the canons of the Council of Gangra in AD 309, [Samuel] Laeuchli found that 46 percent of the eighty-one canons were concerned with sexual relationships and practices." 259 Philip Yancey notes that "between the third and tenth centuries, church authorities issued edicts forbidding sex on Saturdays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, and also during the 40-day fast periods before Easter, Christmas, and Whitsuntide--all for religious reasons. They kept adding feast days and days of the apostles to the proscription, as well as the days of female impurity, until it reached the point that, as Yale historian John Boswell has estimated, only 44 days a year remained available for marital sex.

The Tantrikas tried to transform sex into spirituality,
but the preachers of morality in our history did
not allow the message to reach the masses

"Where there is ecstasy, there is creation
Where there is no ecstasy, there is no creation.
In the infinite there is ecstasy
There is no ecstasy in the finite.''
--Chandogya Upanishad

Tantrikas had the first insight that man's sexual energy can be transformed easily. The only barrier is repression. If you repress it, then you cannot transform it. Don't "repress sexual" energy, don't "condemn" it, but create a friendship with it, that's what I have been saying. Don't think of it as a sin; it is not--you are born of it. The whole life is sex. If you call sex sin, then the whole life becomes sin, then the whole existence becomes sin--and this is not a religious approach to the world. We should make the whole world divine--not sin.

Two bodies, naked and entwined, leap over time, they are invulnerable,
nothing can touch them, they return to the source, there is no you, no I, no tomorrow, no yesterday, no names, the truth of two in a single body, a single soul, oh total being . . .
Octavio Paz

Tantrism says that because all beings, all things originate in the same source (The Absolute, "God") they all have an essential common trait, that is the Individual Self ("ATMAN"), which is identical with The Source of all existence (PARAMATMAN).

Quantum theory thus reveals the basic oneness of the universe. It shows hat we cannot decompose the world into independently existing smallest units. As we penetrate into matterr, nature does not show us any isolated basic building blocks but rather a complicated set of relations between the quantum particles.These relations always include the observer in an essential way.

It is thus obvious that, as all things and beings are part of the creation, nothing can exist and not have this spark of Divine Consciousness.

Just like the esoteric oriental tradition of spirituality, modern physics does not conceive matter as being passive, inert, static, but as being in a continuous vibratory movement.

When you look at this life of action—the growing tree, the bird on the wing, the flowing river, the movement of the clouds, of lightning, of machines, the action of the waves upon the shore—then you see, do you not, that life itself is action, endless action that has no beginning and no end. It is something that is everlastingly in movement, and it is the universe, God, bliss, reality. But we reduce the vast action of life to our own petty little action in life, and ask what we should do, or follow some book, some system.
— Krishnamurti, Bombay 1958

The rhythms of these movements are determined, among other things, by the atomic, nuclear and molecular structures. Therefore both science and spirituality converge toward the idea that the Universe is dynamic, being in a continuous movement of oscillation.

Nature is not in a static, but in a dynamic equilibrium. Here is what a Taoist text says about this matter:

"The silence in silence is not the true Silence. Only when there is calmness in movement, the spiritual rhythm [vibration] which penetrates the Sky and the Earth is born."

Tantra considers the outer world (objects) and the self (subject) have the same ultimate nature, acting as an inseparable whole - this is the principle of unity within diversity and diversity within unity.

"He, who sees "inaction in action", and "action in inaction" is wise among men; he is a yogi, who has accomplished all action".

Gita c4v18

. What is this sex energy? Why is it such a powerful disturbance in our lives? Why does it pervade our entire beings? Why do our lives revolve around it, even to the end? What is the source of this urge?...

"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed."
Albert Einstein

my conjecture is that man had his first luminous glimpse of samadhi during the experience of intercourse. Only in the moments of coitus did man realize that it was possible to feel such profound love, to experience such illuminating bliss. that in the moments of climax the mind becomes empty of thoughts. All thoughts drain out at that moment. And this emptiness of mind, this void, this vacuum, this freezing of the mind, is the cause of the shower of divine joy..

The Maithuna Ritual is basicaly sex with complete attenteion,One places high emphasis on the squeezing of the male and female Pc muscles,with practice you will be able to lay or sit with your partner fully connected, hardly moving except for the internal squeezing, this action brings waves of exstatic orgasms, which travel up the spine to the brain, rapturous mind orgasm and complete unity Is a common experience…
 

Sex is also termed the small death. And because of that small death in sex, there is so much release of joy in you. For a single moment you disappear, and that moment is the "climax",
the "orgasm". In that single moment you don't know who you are. In that single moment you are pure energy vibrating, pulsating. With no center to it, with no "ego" in it.

The following conversation took place between Jesus and his disciples:

His disciples asked, When will you become revealed to us and when shall we see you? Jesus answered, When you disrobe without being ashamed and take up your garments and place them under your feet like little children and tread on them, then will you see the son of the Living One, and you will not be afraid.[
Gospel of Thomas

The concept of nakedness is a subjective one. To a simple mind, to an innocent mind, nudity is not offensive; it has its own beauty. But up to now, man has been fed on" poison", and gradually, with the passage of time, this poison has "spread" from one pole of his existence to the other. Consequently, our attitude to "nakedness" is completely unnatural

Sad Conditioning

"The stripping off of clothes particularly by married and elderly women is a way of shaming men -- some of whom believe that if they see the naked bodies they will go mad or suffer some great harm. The curse extends not just to local men but also to any foreigner who it is believed would become impotent at the sight of "the naked mother," says Sokari Ekine, the International Coordinator of the Niger Delta Women.

Nakedness Phobia

One may note the comments of Pope John Paul II in this matter: "The human body can remain nude and uncovered and preserve intact its splendor and its beauty... Nakedness as such is not to be equated with physical shamelessness... Immodesty is present only when nakedness plays a negative role with regard to the value of the person...The human body is not in itself shameful... Shamelessness (just like shame and modesty) is a function of the interior of a person

 

"When you are making love don't control. Go into uncontrol, go into chaos. It will be fearful, frightening, because it will be a kind of death. And the mind will say 'Control!' And the mind will say 'Jump in and keep control, otherwise you will be lost in the abyss of it.' Don't listen to the mind, get lost. Abandon yourself utterly. And without any technique you will come to see a timeless experience. There will be no two in it: "oneness". A consciousness will be there, a lucid passive consciousness will be there, you will know what is happening, because you will be fully aware.. But you will not be there. Awareness will be there.
You have to imbibe the Tantra spirit -- it is not a technique to be learned.
In that single moment of orgasmic space you lose all boundaries, separation. You become vast, huge. You are no more separate from the other. That's why there is so much joy -- although the moment is very small"

Because the moment of orgasm is very small. In Tantra That moment can become very deep, that moment can remain there for hours. That moment, once you know the art of remaining in it, can surround you twenty-four hours. Tantra transforms sex.

Sex is not a need like food or thirst or hunger. Sex has a definitely total dimension, a different dimension altogether. It is a way to contact the ultimate reality. It is an urge to move to the original source.

The Tantra attitude about sex is that sex is not a need. It is a cosmic experience, it is an experience of meditation. It is an instinctual return to our ultimate reality, one of the highest forms of meditation.

Tantra says: The appeal of sex is because it gives you a moment of egolessness, timelessness, meditation.

In a Tantra coitus you can remain for hours. It is a kind of melting with the woman or with the man, it is a kind of relaxation into each other's being. And it is meditative, because there is no ego, no thought stirs. And time stops. This is a glimpse of God. Tantra is the natural way to God, the normal way to "God". The object is to become so completely instinctual, so mindless, that we merge with ultimate nature -- that the woman disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate, the man disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate

This is the Tantra definition of our sexuality:
The return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness

Real Tantra is not technique but love. Is not technique but prayer. Is not head-oriented but a relaxation into the heart. Please remember it. Many books have been written on Tantra, they all talk about technique. But the real Tantra has nothing to do with "technique". The real Tantra cannot be written about, the real Tantra has to be imbibed. How to imbibe real Tantra? You will have to transform your whole approach

The Chinese philosopher Su Nu Ching sums it up most effectively: "All physical and psychological debility must ultimately be attributed to the faulty practice of sex. The art of love is to be considered foremost of all arts in that, correctly practised, it brings one towards the goal of immortality.''

 

Q: We have always heard that tantra is basically concerned with sex energy and sex center techniques, but you say that tantra is all-inclusive. ?

A :The first thing is to understand sex energy. As you understand it, it is just a part, one part, one fragment of the life force, but as Tantra understands it, it is just synonymous with life. It is not a part, not a fragment - it is life itself. So when Tantra says "sex" energy it means "life" energy.


The same is true about "Freudian" concepts of sex energy. Freud was also very much misunderstood in the West. It appeared to people that he was reducing life to sex, but he was doing the same thing that Tantra has been doing for so long.

The Spirituality of "sex" energy was relized by all religions

" Islam"

" Bhuddism"

" Hinduism"

" Christianity"

"Is Chrisianity Moral"

Things are not always as they appear

The "OM mantra", shown in Fig. 1 below, represents a linga being inserted in the yoni represented by a woman?s derrière The buttocks; the rear.. Also shown in Fig. 1 are some early forms of the OM glyph taken from Indian sources, as well as the Devanagari spelling of the Sacred Syllable. We should not forget that the Yoni-lingam is India's most sacred symbol, and that the sex act is deemed holy in India, as it in fact is, being in reality the performance of the only divine act of Creation that we humans are able of performing.

Life is sex. The word "sex" is not confined to reproduction, the whole play of life energy is sex. Reproduction is just a part of that play. Wherever two energies are meeting - negative and positive - sex has entered.

It is difficult to understand. For example: you are listening to me. If you ask "Freud", or if you ask Tantra masters, they would say that listening is passive, feminine, and speaking is male. Speaking is a penetration of you and you are receptive to it. Between a speaker and a listener a sex act is happening because the speaker is trying to penetrate you and the listener is receiving. The energy in the listener has become feminine, and if the listener has not become feminine there will be no phenomenon of listening. That is why the listener has to be totally passive. He should not think while listening because thinking will make him active. He should not go on arguing within because argument will make him active. While listening, he should be "simply listening", not doing anything else. Only then can the message penetrate and become illumined. But then the listener has become feminine.

Communication happens only when one party has become male and the other party has become female, otherwise there can be no communication. Wherever negative and positive meet, sex has happened. It may be on the physical plane - positive and negative electricity meet and sex has happened. Wherever polarities meet, opposites meet, it is sex.


So sex is a very wide, a very "spacious" term, it is not concerned only with reproduction. Reproduction is only one type of phenomenon which is included in sex. Tantra says that when the ultimate bliss and ecstasy comes inside you, it means your own positive and negative pole have come to a meeting - because every man is both man and woman, and every women is both man and woman. You are born not only from woman or from man, you are born out of a meeting of the opposites. Your father has contributed, your mother has contributed. You are half your mother and half your father and they both co-exist within you. When they meet within, ecstasy happens.

"Buddha sitting under his Bodhi tree" is in a deep inner orgasm. The inner forces have met, they have melted into each other. Now there will be no need to seek a woman outside because the meeting has happened with the inner woman. And Buddha is non-attached to, or detached from, woman outside, not because he is against woman, but because the ultimate phenomenon has happened within. Now there is no need. An inner circle has become whole, now it is complete. That is why such grace comes to Buddha's face. It is the grace of being complete. Now nothing is lacking, a deep fulfillment has happened, now there is no further journey. He has achieved the ultimate destiny. The inner forces have come to a meeting and now there is no "conflict". But it is a sexual phenomenon.


"Meditation" is a sexual phenomenon, that is why Tantra is said to be sex-based, sex-oriented - and all these hundred and twelve techniques are sexual.
Really, no meditative technique can be non-sexual. But you have to understand the wideness of the term "sex". If you don't understand you will be confused, and misunderstanding will follow.

So whenever Tantra says "sex-energy" it means the "elan-vital", the life-energy itself. They are synonymous. Whatsoever we call sex is just one dimension of life-energy. There are other "dimensions". And really it should be so.

You see a seed sprouting, somewhere flowers are coming on a tree, the birds are singing - the whole phenomenon is sexual. It is life manifesting itself in many ways. When the bird is singing it is a sexual call, an invitation. When the flower is attracting butterflies and bees it is an invitation, because the bees and butterflies will carry the seeds of reproduction. Everything appears to be divided into these two polarities. And life is a rhythm between these two opposites. Repulsion and attraction, coming nearer and going far... these are the rhythms.


Tantra uses the word "sex" wherever the opposites meet. It is a sexual phenomenon. And how to make your inner opposites meet, is the whole purpose of meditation. So all these hundred and twelve methods are sexual. There cannot be anything else, there is no possibility. But try to understand the wideness of the term "sex".
From: Osho, The Book of Secrets

 

."Sex is not sin; repression is a sin. Sex is very natural,
very spontaneous. You have not done anything to have it,
it is inborn, it is part of your being"

"Don't condemn it, don't judge it, don't fear it, don't fight with it. Simply go into it more, more meditatively. Let it happen in such silence, in such deep acceptance, that you can know the very core of it"

Sex is the characteristic of "destiny" and in reality uncontaminated. Sex gets contaminated if it is sin and sin is of the ego and "ultimately illusion". We are here to play, have fun and enjoy. Life is not a drag, She is miraculous, beautiful, awesome. Lila is the divine play of life, enjoyment, love. Our species is truly destined for eroticism, sensuality and pleasure. Sex is meditation because it is not solely a procreative act but truly spiritual because in its very essence sex is egolessness, decoupled from its animal drive and “I”ness a human couple can accede true bliss," love", amorous ecstasy. Osho

We are already that which we will be, which we should be, which we are to be. The future is already hidden in the present; the whole possibility is here in the seed. Suddenly one day Buddha realizes the inner treasure, the Lotus. Then he is no more a beggar, he becomes a master. The distance between Gautama Siddhartha and Gautam Buddha is infinite. It is the same distance between you and Buddhahood but the Lotus (Shakti) is hidden within you; the flower is hidden in the seed.

All one needs is to grow and evolve

Tantra avoids mind and encounters life face to face, neither thinking, “This is good,” nor thinking, “This is bad”: simply facing that which is. So it is difficult to say that this is an attitude – in fact it is a non-attitude.

The second thing to remember, that tantra is a great yea-sayer; it says yes to everything. It has nothing like “no” in its vocabulary, there is no negation. It never says no to anything, because with no the fight starts, with no you become the ego. The moment you say no to anything, you have come the ego already; a conflict has come in, now you are at war.

Tantra loves, and loves unconditionally. It never says no to anything whatsoever, because everything is part of the whole, and everything has its own place in the whole, and the whole cannot exist with anything missing from it.

It is said that even if a drop of water is missing, the whole existence will thirst. You pluck a flower in the garden, and you have plucked something out of the whole existence. You harm a flower, and you have harmed millions of stars – because everything is interrelated. The whole exists as a whole, as an organic whole. The whole exists not as a mechanical thing – everything is related to everything else.

So tantra says yes unconditionally. There has never been any other vision of life which says yes without any conditions – simply yes. No disappears; from your very being no disappears. When there is no no, how can you fight? How can you be at war? You simply float. You simply merge and melt. You become one. The boundaries are there no more. No creates the boundary. No is the boundary around you. Whenever you say no, watch – immediately something closes in. Whenever you say yes, your being opens.
osho

In my personal opinion the reason that tantra persists despite the persecution of sexuality in most modern civilizations, the reason it arises spontaneously in different eras and places, and the reason
that it crosses socio-cultural lines is that it is based upon some
neurological hard-wiring of the human body; something which, when practiced correctly, allows the participants to experience what seems to be -- what IS, for all intents and purposes -- the presence of deity in the person of the sex partner.
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Just as some of the world’s greatest "spiritual teachers" have said that Heaven cannot be accurately described in words, the essence of Tantra cannot be captured in either "oral or written words". To truly understand Tantra, it has to be experienced.

Once Lord Rama asked Lord Hanumana the epitome of knowledge "Gyaaninanaagraganyam" Who are You? " O my master As the Son of AnJani ( body Consious) I am your Slave (Dvaita). As a Jiva I am A part of Yours (Ansa) (Vishishtadvaita) and in the light of Knowledge I am what you are O my Lord (Advaita). Thus it all depends what bhumi (stage) you stand. All Schools were started by avataras, nobody can be wrong and other right. All schools of thought are beautiful flowers of the garden of Vedanta.

Although most "spiritual disciplines" insist on evolving into higher states of consciousness by controlling or denying the senses"and so called lower states of consciousness , Tantra teaches that you cannot experience complete personal and spiritual liberation while restricting a part of your being...

So Put away your pointless taboos and restrictions on sexual energy , rather help others to truly understand its wonder and beauty, as you let go and realise this freedon this incredible lightness of being, honor the many sensefull moments, this Blissful Tantric unity, that arise, from a mind that is free

 

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We are the dance of Spirit and Nature. Unless we know this Tantra is elusive. But, whether we understand it or not - Tantra is continually performing itself It is what is happening.

 

 

 

Above all else, the goal of any Tantric experience is joy, happiness and laughter. So much in our world and our lives is so serious. We even take sex so seriously, being a good lover is so important, having bigger and better breasts and penises and orgasms is so important.

Perhaps, What is important on the Tantric journey is to be open, to share and most of all, to love. For love is a choice that we make, every moment of every day.

The wonderful world of Tantra offers many possibilities on how to live, to love and of course, how to have great sex.

 

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"Before I understood how to open with you, I tried giving you orgasms so I knew I was a good lover. But now, all I want is your surrender. I want your heart's pleasure to ripple through your open body and saturate my life with your love. Your body's openness to love's flow draws me into you, and through your heart's surrender I am opened to the love that lives as the universe. Whether you have an orgasm or not while we make love, your body's trust and devotional openness is my secret doorway to love's deepest bliss."

from "Dear Lover," a book by David Deida

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According to Oprah (as well as many others) on Women's sexuality …
A good sex life is important to a woman's overall health 71% of women are non orgasmic…that means that most women are largely UNSATISFIED with their sex lives.

The main reason… a lack of knowledge about their bodies and vaginas, or have a poor self image. Most women are also caught in the "Good girl/Bad girl" trap and unable to express themselves to their partners effectively. In my opinion, one of the key factors is your ability to surrender to yourself and your feelings and feel SAFE all at the same time.

There are many simple easy to learn effective techniques available to make the changes that can lead to a happier healthier sex life, and quality of life in all your relating from your authentic self.

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Tantric sex distinguishes between the experiences of orgasm and ejaculation. Although they often happen at the same time, men are capable of having orgasms without ejaculating. Ejaculatory control is what makes it possible for Tantric lovers to capture and extend the magical energy of orgasm. By holding back, men can experience a series of “orgasms.”

This does not mean that you are never to ejaculate, but that you can control your climax. The essence, say Tantric experts, is to catch a wave of energy and to surf the edge without going over. Use these strategies to stay atop the wave

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