1. Talk with other women about their g-spots.
2. Find someone who knows about g-spots and if you aren’t too shy, ask them to show you.
3. Ask your gynecologist. Hopefully s/he will know.

4. Know that it’s actually very obvious. Don’t expect it have the same feelings and sensations as your clitoris does. It has different sensations when pressed-- more electric, similar to feeling like you have to pee but more pleasurable. It feels especially good when you are already aroused.

5. Look at diagrams of g-spots in several books or on the Internet. Some diagrams are way better than others.
6. Ask your lover to help you find your g-spot, by having him/her press on various different spots. Communicate about this as you go. Let it be rather clinical. Have fun looking.

7. Try pressing firmly on various spots yourself when masturbating. This will help you better distinguish your g-spot from other spots. Some women can use their finger. Or get a special g-spotter type of sex toy/tool, which has a nice curve to put pressure on the front vaginal wall.

8. Feel for the spot that is more spongy and textured. This is your urethral sponge. Explore the whole area and notice if some spots are more electric than others.

9. Look for your urethral sponge with a mirror. Hold a mirror between your legs, and bear down on your vagina. Push out. Sometimes you can see the spongy area peek out as you are pushing out.

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